Even though group effort sometimes prevail, self realisation holds all keys to success and liberation.
The notion of true wisdom is born from willing dissociation.
What you can do to her is most certainly not important, what you can accomplish together makes it all worth it in the long run.
The idea of winning or losing in any relationship kickstarts the decay in what have been and whatever would have been to null and void.
Two heads they say are better than one, not for the sake of warfare against one another but best in complementing one another.
Ideas are like the air we breath, when you get one, stop, think, relax and imagine all possible ventures before you take up the act.