Kicked out of her home with a notion of traditional accusations on her husbands success in business and ability to have a male son, devastated in the fear of knowing nothing about the world struggle and challenges in income, she headed to her friend way on the other side of town, who was recently widowed.
In open arms she was received, with a filled dining table she was hosted alongside her little 5 year old daughter, Boke; innocent of the world we live in but accused of what she knew nothing about and will definitely always wonder why her very own father will kick her out of his home. Seated around the table were Moremi, her widowed friend, her beautiful daughter Jainy, who is a year older than Boke.
Moremi has been a single mother since the lost of her husband and has been left in charge of series of supermarkets she had had to learn appropriately how to manage. She had been to several courses and classes to understand the rudiments of money management, financial acquisitions and business incorporation. She had grown from a simple shy girl of their teens to a bold industrious woman holding the reins of her staff in check as they complete each days task in her several business locations.
Jainy hardly stays home as well cause she had always been from one day care center to the other to allow her mom the space and time to complete what she called, "building a better future". Her joy now knows no bound that i will home with her and my sweet daughter to guide them appropriately in the education of life, science and discipline while helping then get to school and back at appropriate times.
my new life integration was so smooth that with loads of time on my hands, i had even seek the consent of a lawyer and more so advisers for the best approach to get my husband back. It even got worse that another has replaced my presence on our matrimonial home and the rage and jealousy i feel knows no bound but for the smile of innocent in my daughters face, i could have never made it.
in my battle for a lost cause, i forgot the need my dear friend lacked and seem so consume on my desire to get back to the way things were but to no avail. It was a desire for the uneventful and a fight for no apparent future.
My daughter was attending a great school, my meals are well garnished by the house maids and my life was filled with the glamour offered by a friendship i never knew could be this attainable but i was in search of a woman i knew, a stay at home mother with no connections with the world and dependent on a husband of whom activities i never could predict as well as cover for in public places when it opens up.
today i have my degree in fashion and style, i own a shopping complex with lavish style, drive my own car and in love with a friend whose affection for my freedom and liberation was a her passion and gift of a second chance at life. i still reside in the mansion we share together, we cater for each other with the zeal that exceeds friendship and take care of our kids like never before.
The transcendence from our former state of mind to the present did not go unnoticed and a lot of water has passed under yet we stand in the principle of seeking women in their state of diaspora to be liberated from a culture of delimitation by traditional and cultural degradation and insults.
There is life after divorce and better choices in the invariant future but we must as a group seek the desire to live amidst our challenges and aim for the peak of our existence on this planet we call earth. You are not an idea of a person but rather a person and once you keep to that position of your personality being higher than self, you will accomplish more than you have ever hoped to dream about.
In three months time, i will be getting married to a man worthy of my love, his consistency to be with me has driven him crazy in many aspect of his life but he never seem to want to limit me and my adventures in a box. I hope in due time you find your feet and feel exasperated like i do right now cayuse the life of freedom and liberation from a four cornered prison of doubt will unleash your potential beyond your human sense.
In open arms she was received, with a filled dining table she was hosted alongside her little 5 year old daughter, Boke; innocent of the world we live in but accused of what she knew nothing about and will definitely always wonder why her very own father will kick her out of his home. Seated around the table were Moremi, her widowed friend, her beautiful daughter Jainy, who is a year older than Boke.
Moremi has been a single mother since the lost of her husband and has been left in charge of series of supermarkets she had had to learn appropriately how to manage. She had been to several courses and classes to understand the rudiments of money management, financial acquisitions and business incorporation. She had grown from a simple shy girl of their teens to a bold industrious woman holding the reins of her staff in check as they complete each days task in her several business locations.
Jainy hardly stays home as well cause she had always been from one day care center to the other to allow her mom the space and time to complete what she called, "building a better future". Her joy now knows no bound that i will home with her and my sweet daughter to guide them appropriately in the education of life, science and discipline while helping then get to school and back at appropriate times.
my new life integration was so smooth that with loads of time on my hands, i had even seek the consent of a lawyer and more so advisers for the best approach to get my husband back. It even got worse that another has replaced my presence on our matrimonial home and the rage and jealousy i feel knows no bound but for the smile of innocent in my daughters face, i could have never made it.
in my battle for a lost cause, i forgot the need my dear friend lacked and seem so consume on my desire to get back to the way things were but to no avail. It was a desire for the uneventful and a fight for no apparent future.
My daughter was attending a great school, my meals are well garnished by the house maids and my life was filled with the glamour offered by a friendship i never knew could be this attainable but i was in search of a woman i knew, a stay at home mother with no connections with the world and dependent on a husband of whom activities i never could predict as well as cover for in public places when it opens up.
today i have my degree in fashion and style, i own a shopping complex with lavish style, drive my own car and in love with a friend whose affection for my freedom and liberation was a her passion and gift of a second chance at life. i still reside in the mansion we share together, we cater for each other with the zeal that exceeds friendship and take care of our kids like never before.
The transcendence from our former state of mind to the present did not go unnoticed and a lot of water has passed under yet we stand in the principle of seeking women in their state of diaspora to be liberated from a culture of delimitation by traditional and cultural degradation and insults.
There is life after divorce and better choices in the invariant future but we must as a group seek the desire to live amidst our challenges and aim for the peak of our existence on this planet we call earth. You are not an idea of a person but rather a person and once you keep to that position of your personality being higher than self, you will accomplish more than you have ever hoped to dream about.
In three months time, i will be getting married to a man worthy of my love, his consistency to be with me has driven him crazy in many aspect of his life but he never seem to want to limit me and my adventures in a box. I hope in due time you find your feet and feel exasperated like i do right now cayuse the life of freedom and liberation from a four cornered prison of doubt will unleash your potential beyond your human sense.